More often than not, the environment that we live in throws us into a pit of toxicity. We face this almost everyday – at work, at home, at gatherings and everywhere. Negativity comes in a lot of ways – from people, perceptions, judgments, and nasty words. Without us realising it, we have allowed these negativities to dictate our life. We have let people and their perceptions to govern our happiness.
This is when we need to ask ourselves the most important questions.
Until when?
How long must we let people and their negativity drown us in the vast sea of misery?
It is now the time.
Embrace your true self.
You do you.
This book shares essential tips on how to carve your own happiness, building a content and fulfilling life while dealing with and ignoring negative judgments from all around you; be it from the people or the environment that you live in. Embracing The True You brings 10 ways on how to work on your own happiness while incorporating the elements of psychology, accompanied with Islamic perspective and teachings.
PREFACE
CHAPTER 1: BUILDING THE SOUL
The Source of Influence on Society The Essence of Soul Purification Imam Al-Ghazali’s Soul-Searching Journey A Journey of Highs and Lows Building a Home for the Soul Dealing with Criticism and Practising Self-Compassion
CHAPTER 2: CARVING THE IDENTITY
The Wisdom of Character Building Character is a Journey Highlighting Core Values Embracing Imperfections Identify Our Strengths and Good Qualities Centralising on Authenticity
CHAPTER 3: FORGING INTEGRITY
Seeking Enlightenment and Knowledge Setting Good Intentions Cultivate Integrity Practising Integrity Aligning the Actions with Integrity
CHAPTER 4: EMPOWERING SELF-ACCEPTANCE
Acknowledging Our Worth Learning Self-Love and Self-Care Accepting Reality and Making Peace with the Past Reframing the Negative Thoughts Finding a Good Support System
CHAPTER 5: THE CARPENTRY OF CONFIDENCE
Nurturing Self-Esteem Embracing Failures Silencing the Inner Critique The Downside of Comparison Recognising Our Power
CHAPTER 6: CONSTRUCTING A HEALTHY CIRCLE
Identifying and Removing Unhealthy Cultures Getting Out of a Toxic Relationship Dealing with Toxicity at the Workplace Connecting with Good and Positive People Participating in a Healthy and Empowering Circle Choosing Quality Over Quantity